Consultations for Couples Professionals
Virtual Consultation for Couples Professionals
Bring the Enneagram + Differentiation into your couples work with confidence.
Working with couples can be one of the most rewarding—and most challenging—paths in our field.
When conflict patterns run deep, even seasoned therapists and coaches can feel stuck or unsure how to help partners move forward.
That’s where consultation can make the difference.
Why Work With Me
I’ve been seeing couples through the lens of the Enneagram and differentiation (often the missing piece in couples work) for nearly 25 years.
Rather than spinning wheels with surface fixes, I help professionals get to the root of reactivity—where lasting change happens.
I developed The Developmental Enneagram for Couples™, a framework that integrates:
- Differentiation & Linkage (grounded in Dan Siegel’s work)
- The Enneagram lens on projections, defenses, and growth edges
- Neuroscience insights on communication, conflict, and repair
This approach consistently helps couples move from being stuck in cycles to experiencing real connection, safety, and transformation.
How Consultation Works
- One-on-One Virtual Sessions via Zoom
- Bring a case, clinical question, or growth edge you’re navigating
- Explore type patterns, differentiation breakdowns, and repair tools
- Walk away with clear frameworks, language, and interventions you can use immediately
What We Can Explore Together
- Mapping how each partner’s Enneagram type shows up in conflict
- Using the 3 Relational Projections™ model to clarify what’s really happening
- Intervening when partners are stuck in fusion or defensiveness
- Tools for conflict repair, emotional safety, and reconnection
- Therapist self-awareness: noticing your own type triggers in the room
Who This Is For
- Therapists who want to get unstuck with couples and avoid surface fixes
- Coaches who want to apply the Enneagram more effectively in relationships
- Professionals curious about integrating differentiation into their work
- Practitioners considering The Developmental Enneagram for Couples™ Certification and wanting a first step
Schedule Your Virtual Consultation
Couples therapy doesn’t have to be about spinning wheels.
When you bring the Enneagram together with differentiation, you can finally get to the root of what blocks connection and growth.
