Enneagram Coaching for Couples
Enneagram Coaching for Couples
Transform conflict into connection. Grow closer by understanding your type.
Most couples think their challenges come from being “too different.”
But the truth is—it’s not your differences that create distance, it’s how you manage them.
Through personalized Enneagram coaching, you and your partner will learn to:
- Understand your type patterns and how they shape your reactions, triggers, and longings.
- Recognize your partner’s type lens, so you can interpret their behavior without defensiveness or shutting down.
- Break repetitive cycles of conflict by seeing what’s really happening underneath the surface.
- Practice new communication tools that honor both your individuality and your connection.
- Turn projections into clarity with my proprietary 3 Relational Projections™ framework.
Why the Enneagram Works for Couples
The Enneagram doesn’t just describe personality—it reveals the deeper patterns behind how we connect, protect, and disconnect in relationships.
When couples see these patterns clearly, they move from:
- Blame → Understanding
- Defensiveness → Curiosity
- Reactivity → Choice
- Distance → Closeness
What Coaching Looks Like
Private Sessions (via Zoom) with both partners presen
Type-Based Guidance tailored to your exact pairing
Tools for Differentiation — learning to stay grounded in yourself while staying connected to your partner
Practical Takeaways you can use right away at home, in conflict, or in daily life
Who This Is For
- Couples who want more than “tips and tricks” and are ready for deeper, lasting change
- Partners who feel stuck in recurring cycles of miscommunication or conflict
- Couples who long for closer connection, healthier conflict resolution, and a shared path of growth
Begin Your Coaching Journey
Working with me, you’ll discover that your partner is not the problem—they are your greatest ally in growth. Together, you’ll learn to:
- Navigate differences with respect
- Create emotional safety
- Rebuild connection when conflict arises
- Grow into the higher possibilities of your type
