Enneagram Relationships Lab – monthly subscription group
💞 The Enneagram Relationships Lab™
Grow closer. Repair deeper. Love more consciously — through your types.
Tired of circling the same arguments or feeling unseen?
The Enneagram Relationships Lab is a monthly subscription group that turns insight into real-world transformation with tools designed for your type and your relationship.
✨ Each month, you’ll get:
- Type-Specific Conflict Repair Tools → so arguments don’t just repeat.
- Fun & Creative Connection Activities → spark joy, play, and intimacy.
- Live Support & Community → feel seen, guided, and supported as you grow.
💌 Not just theory. Not just tips.
A guided path to lasting love, rooted in who you truly are.
🌿 Why I Created This Lab
I’ve spent over 20 years helping couples heal and grow. Along the way, I developed the Developmental Enneagram for Couples™ — a framework that blends psychology, emotional safety, and type wisdom.
After my Enneagram summits, so many of you asked: “How do we keep going?”
This membership is my answer.
The Lab isn’t just another program.
It’s the next step in what I’ve devoted my life to:
💡 Helping couples not just stay in love, but truly grow in it.
✨ Who This Is For
The Lab is for couples and partners who want more from their relationship: more connection, clarity, depth, and play.
It’s for you if you’ve ever Googled things like:
- “Why do we keep having the same fight?”
- “How do I get my partner to open up?”
- “We love each other, but feel disconnected — how do we get back on track?”
- “What can we do with the Enneagram as a couple?”
Or if you’re craving type-informed experiences like:
- Enneagram-based date night kits that go deeper than small talk
- Type-specific rituals for emotional safety and reconnection
- Fun challenges and games that make growth playful
👉 If any of this resonates, the Lab was created for you.
This is not therapy.
It’s a guided lab — a place to practice love, one type-informed experiment at a time.
🌱 Why a Membership?
Because real change isn’t instant — it’s cultivated.
Consistent Support Over Time
Small steps, steady growth, lasting results
Deeper Learning & Integration
Insights become habits, not just “aha” moments
Safe Space to Experiment
Try, repair, and try again without judgment
Community Accountability
Support from others on the same journey
Practical, Type-Specific Tools
Not generic advice, but personalized guidance
💡 What You’ll Get Each Month
1. Emotional Depth Tools
Conflict repair scripts, trust-builders, and communication guides — tailored to your type pairing.
2. Playful Connection Activities
Date-night kits, growth challenges, and storytelling prompts that make connection fun.
3. Type Match Deep Dive
Monthly workshop + guidebook exploring how one type pairing plays out in love, conflict, and repair.
4. Private Office Hours
15-minute coaching slots for personal, focused support (limited spots each month).
5. Live Coaching Circles & Q&A
Practice tools, ask questions, and see type-pair dynamics in action.
6. Type Rooms
Dedicated spaces for each Enneagram type — a place where you instantly feel understood.
7. The Relationship Vault
A growing library of type-specific scripts, repair rituals, conflict templates, and trust-building practices.
8. A Private, Off-Social Community
Stay connected in a warm, welcoming space — without the noise of Facebook or Instagram.
🔑 Why This Lab Is Different
Most Enneagram programs give you insight.
This Lab gives you transformation.
Typical Enneagram Programs | The Enneagram Relationships Lab™ |
Broad type overviews | Type-specific conflict repair rituals |
Generic advice | Customized communication scripts |
One-time learning | Monthly practice + integration |
Limited interaction | Office hours + type-pair rooms + live circles |
Focus on awareness | Focus on emotional safety, repair, and intimacy |
I’ve guided couples for decades as a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Enneagram teacher. This Lab brings together everything I know couples need: structure, safety, emotional depth, creativity, and community.
💞 Membership Options
Solo Membership
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For individuals in relationships, even if your partner isn’t joining (yet).
Couple Membership
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For committed partners who want to grow together.
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Add your partner later for just $35/month
🔒 Founding Members: Lock in $47/month for life (before June 1).
📝 Cancellation Policy
- Cancel anytime — effective at the end of your billing cycle
- No refunds for the current month
- Founding Members keep their rate as long as they stay subscribed
Commonly Asked Questions instead, since the questions and answers are listed below that.
What if my partner doesn’t want to join?
You don’t have to do this alone. Many members start solo and invite their partner later when the time feels right. Our type-specific tools and monthly activities make it easy and inviting for both partners to connect at their own pace.
I’m really busy—how much time will this take?
We keep it flexible with short, manageable exercises, 15-minute monthly office hours, and fun activities designed to fit into your life without adding stress.
How do I know this will actually help my relationship?
Our resources are designed for emotional impact, helping you break repetitive patterns and build deeper connection. Many members see positive shifts in just a few weeks, with ongoing support as you grow.
Is this a safe space to share personal things?
Absolutely. Our community is private and moderated to ensure a supportive, respectful environment where you can share as much or as little as you’re comfortable with.
I’m nervous about sharing personal things — is this going to feel too vulnerable or exposing?”
That’s a completely valid concern. The Enneagram Relationships Lab is not group therapy, and sharing deeply personal stories is never required. This is a learning and growth space — you can engage privately with the tools, journal prompts, and vault resources at your own pace. For live sessions, you’re always welcome to simply listen or submit questions anonymously. Emotional safety is one of our core values, and you’ll never be put on the spot.
I’m new to the Enneagram. Will this be too complicated?
Not at all. Whether you’re new or experienced, we guide you through every step with practical, jargon-free, type-specific tools you can use right away.
What if I don’t know the Enneagram well?
No problem at all. You don’t need to be an expert. The Relationship Lab is designed to help you learn the Enneagram through real-life application—especially in your relationships.
Each session will guide you step-by-step, and you’ll receive simple tools to help you understand your type, your partner’s patterns (if you’re in a relationship), and how to grow with more compassion and awareness. Whether you’re new or experienced, you’ll get something meaningful out of it.
“Is this therapy?”
The Relationship Lab is not therapy—it’s an educational and experiential space led by a couples therapist, but it’s not a substitute for individual or couples counseling.
Instead, it’s a place for reflection, growth, and self-understanding using the Enneagram. You’ll learn new ways to connect, communicate, and navigate your relationships, but in a supportive group learning environment, not a clinical setting.
I’ve tried relationship programs before and nothing stuck. How is this different?
Our approach focuses on emotional depth and connection tailored to your unique type dynamics, helping you break through stuck patterns in a fresh, compassionate way.
I’m afraid conflict will just get worse if we talk about it.
Conflict is normal and can actually deepen connection when handled with care. We provide gentle, type-aware strategies to help you navigate tough conversations safely and constructively.
I’m not very tech-savvy—will I be able to use the website and access the resources easily?
Yes! Our platform is designed to be user-friendly and intuitive. Plus, we provide step-by-step guides and friendly support if you ever get stuck.
What if I have trouble logging in or accessing content?
We have a dedicated support team ready to help you quickly resolve any access issues, so you can stay focused on your growth without frustration.
Can I access the materials on my phone or tablet?
Absolutely. Our site and resources are optimized for all devices—desktop, tablet, and mobile—so you can engage whenever and wherever it’s convenient for you.
“What if I run into someone I know in the group, like a client or an acquaintance, and feel uncomfortable?”
We understand that can feel awkward. That’s why the group spaces allow you to control your privacy and how much you share. You’re never required to disclose personal details or engage beyond your comfort level. Plus, our type-specific rooms help you connect with people who share your perspectives, minimizing unwanted overlap. Your emotional safety and confidentiality are top priorities here.
“I worry that joining a relationship group means my relationship is in trouble or that it feels like therapy, which has a stigma.”
This group is not therapy—it’s a proactive, positive space focused on emotional growth, connection, and fun. It’s designed to help couples and singles deepen their relationship skills and enjoy type-specific activities together. Joining shows strength and commitment to thriving together, not a sign that something is wrong.
Who is The Enneagram Relationships Lab for?
This membership is designed for people in committed relationships — whether you’re joining solo or with your partner. It’s perfect for those who want to grow emotionally, repair old patterns, deepen connection, and communicate better using the Enneagram.
Can I join on my own, even if my partner isn’t interested?
es! Many members join solo. You’ll get monthly resources tailored to your Enneagram type, including emotional growth tools, communication practices, and self-reflection guides. You’ll also be able to attend live Q&As, office hours, and connect with others in our supportive community.
What’s the difference between joining solo vs. joining as a couple?
- Solo members ($47/month) get access to individual type resources and community events.
- Couples (both partners join) unlock pairing-specific content: emotional depth tools, type-pair activities, and couples-only fun like date night games, repair exercises, and more.
What if I want my partner to join later?
You can add your partner anytime using our special “My Enneagram Wings” partner pass for $35/month. They’ll get their own account, full access to their individual type materials, and unlock couple-specific content with you.
If I join solo, will I get access to type-pairing resources?
No. Pairing resources (like relationship exercises, communication scripts, and couple games) are only unlocked when both partners are members. This keeps things balanced and honors the work both people are doing.
Do you work with people who don’t know their partner’s type?
Yes — but pairing-specific content won’t be available until both partners join. If you’re unsure of your partner’s type, you’ll still get rich, personalized tools based on your type to improve your relationship from your side of the dynamic.
What’s included each month?
Each month, members receive:
- One emotional depth tool (type-specific)
- One fun or creative activity (for individuals or couples)
- Live Office Hours (optional 15-min coaching)
- A Live Q&A with me
- One community connection event (deep dives, guest speakers, or type-circle discussions)
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes — you’re not locked in. You can cancel your membership at any time. We believe in earning your commitment through value, not contracts.
💌 Your Invitation
Relationships don’t thrive on insight alone. They need practice. They need play. They need support.
That’s what this Lab offers — every month.
