Couples And The Enneagram Typing Assessment (CETA)

CETA_Questions

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Step 1 of 6

Instructions

1. Read each statement carefully and respond based on how it typically applies to you.

2. For each statement, choose:

  • Often True – This resonates strongly and describes you in most relationships.
  • Sometimes True – This is sometimes true for you, depending on the situation.
  • Hardly Ever True – This rarely or never applies to you.

3. Answer spontaneously — go with your first reaction rather than overthinking.

4. Complete all 54 questions for the most accurate results.

Important Notes

  • There are no right or wrong answers — this is about patterns, not perfection.
  • Try to answer based on your typical experience in intimate relationships, not only your current one.
  • Your results are private and will be shared only with you.
  • At the end, you will be invited to enter your email so we can send you your full results and growth tips.

When you’re ready, please begin:

1. I hold back emotional honesty at times because I fear being seen as flawed or defective.*
2. I often give more than I can sustain, hoping my partner will give back without me needing to ask.*
3. When my partner expresses intense emotions, I might seem calm, but inside I’m tuning out to protect my peace.*
4. I avoid revisiting past issues because I want to keep things light, optimistic, and moving forward.*
5. It’s hard to share my emotional struggles because I feel like I should already be living up to higher standards or doing better*
6. When I feel hurt, I express anger instead of showing vulnerability.*
7. I rarely ask my partner for help because I don’t want to feel dependent or vulnerable.*
8. I’m easygoing about most things, but when I do care, it can be hard to advocate for myself because I don’t want to upset my partner.*
9. I hold back feelings that might make me seem less impressive or competent.*
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